Started a new post and then abandoned it mid way. Why? Well ... there are many questions that are not answered immediately and this is also one among them. There are certain times when you think that what you are doing is not feeling exactly correct. But then you have only two choices... either continue doing it or stop it immediately.
My friend recently decided to stop doing something that had been doing for quite some time. The friend was convinced that what was doing is correct.. still is... but poor thing, thinks that has lost out on many things due to decision to stop doing that thing. Well, when rot sets in our system, we need to throw it away and stem the decay. So why feel sad for it when you have done the right thing.
We all assume that someone will think or is thinking about me in such and such a manner. Hence we restrict ourselves from thinking of them as people who would understand us. You have thrown out the decay inside you, not your other healthy parts!!! So why degrade the other nice parts as also a part of that decay? What wrong did those parts do to you ?
Also when you are knowing from inside that what you are doing is the right thing, then, there is no need to think of yourself as some victim. You must be able to face God and yourself. If you can do that and justify your actions as being in the larger interests, then you do not need to feel sorry for yourself. I do not feel sorry for myself but I do blame myself for many things that have happened to me. So what? You cannot think that what you did, although it felt right to you, but at the same time felt wrong to the whole of this world is bad! No , that is a wrong assumption.
We all make this mistake of assuming. I make it all the time and I am always ashamed of it. I am trying to improve but in vain. But then why do all other intelligent people also make the same mistake of assuming things and then makin life miserable for themselves. The world is waiting with open arms to embrace the person inside of us. Lets also go ahead and embrace it.... and not waste our time thinking that the world is not supporting us.
As someone said...
"The World Makes Way For The Man/Woman, Who Knows Where He/She is going"
So if you know from inside that what you have done is correct and will benefit all involved .. and will not harm anybody for no fault of theirs, then go ahead and feel happy about it.. God will always be with you... People are all nice... we just need to look at them in a different way... all of us are nice persons... we just need to let our heart see through our eyes and not our brains!!!
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