A person whom you love the most, a person who is your companion so much so that you both are seamlessly bound to each others' lives....such a person, if, is dying, then what do you feel? Does one feel bad and sad because...
1) ...you feel sorry that such a wonderful person will cease to exist?
or
2)... you feel sad for yourself...sad thinking of what are you going to do and how difficult life would be once that person goes out of your life?
What is the reason we all cry when that love of our life dies? Is it selfishness reflected in our sense of loss? or is it the projection of the dying person's pain in your own self due to the closeness of the relationship? or is it the shattering of one's deeply desired dreams and aspirations that were intricately woven around the other person?
What is the real reason behind grief in the face of death of the love of your life?
3 comments:
it's a mixture of both. We humans are both selfish and selfless. Sometimes both at the same time!
When i dissected the grief that engulfed me,when i lost whom i loved the most, i learnt that grief creeps in, when you look back thru the memory lane, or look ahead to see that person missing in future, but you centre yourself in the present "Here & Now", the grief vanishes
its easy said than done...people undergo dreadful pain during their last stages...thou sad of losing ...we pray....its hard to see our loved ones suffering in agony and intolerable pain and they live with it and we are helpless...we humans carry most complicated emotions that none can generalise....we harldly have words(hardly any senses responding @ times) in the grief and we cry out to emote our feeligs...selflessly...
Time is the only factor nothing else!!!!
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