Monday, June 13, 2011

Labouring over issues of Child Labour

Although I am an emotional and weepy person, social causes have not always stimulated me as much for reasons beyond my comprehension. Lack of stimulation does not mean lack of sensitivity to the issues or lack of any measures to personally not be responsible for the perpetuation of the menaces. But no issue has consistently been there in my mind except for one – child labour. From the time I used to see maids bring their kids to assist them in household chores to eating at eateries where kids served you tea and snacks, this has been a rather irksome bother to me.

The first time I thought of doing something for a social cause was when I decided not to eat at a popular snack joint in Vallabh Vidyanagar, Gujarat. The eatery employed children much below 14 years old and although the owners were nice people who treated the kids with love and fed them well, I somehow could not come around to being served by a 10 year old toothless boy. The tea and the snack just would feel like a lump of mud and stone inside my throat. I one day stopped going there and did not return ever since. This was also the time when the debate inside my head started to foster about the other side of child labour problem i.e the good that the kids get out of working instead of rotting in poverty.

A friend of mine asked me why I was refusing to hang out with them in that joint and although at first I used to make excuses, soon enough I ran out of them as we all know how often college kids hang out in these popular joints. A friend of mine then stimulated the debate I was referring to earlier. He told me how the kids come from poor families who cant afford schooling, and that it will help the kids and their families live a more comfortable life if they work and send some money home. Of course we all know the deep and complex issues and counter-issues of Child Labour so I will not dig into that anymore. Basically even after all these years of conscious effort to stay away from child labour and deep thinking of the malice, I have not been able to figure out a way to help. Is there a solution that an be independently implemented without getting into the intricate web of education, poverty, developmental programmes, affirmative action etc. ?

Today is World Day Against Child Labour – June 12 and I was reading this article in the newspaper which was written by Kailash Satyarthi – Founder of Bachpan Bachao Andolan and chairperson of Global March Against Child Labour. And after 1000 words, I still remain as clueless as before. Sure we know there have been success stories, but that is just a micro-activity done to help some few kids. It is not a holistic solution.

Rather I want to know what a common man/woman like me and countless others should do in order to avoid being an accomplice or a contributor to the scourge of child labour. Should we boycott places and organization or maids who employ children below 14yrs? Should we eat and think that its better that these kids work as they will otherwise perish to poverty? Should we eat and also help them parallel with books and clothes or daily 1 hr classes on literacy aids etc? What should we do?

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Learning to Fly

Into the distance, a ribbon of black
Stretched to the point of no turning back
A flight of fancy on a windswept field
Standing alone my senses reeled
A fatal attraction is holding me fast,
How can I escape this irresistible grasp?

Can't keep my eyes from the circling skies
Tongue-tied and twisted, just an earth-bound misfit, I

- Pink Floyd

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Doctor said "she's dying"

A person whom you love the most, a person who is your companion so much so that you both are seamlessly bound to each others' lives....such a person, if, is dying, then what do you feel? Does one feel bad and sad because...
1) ...you feel sorry that such a wonderful person will cease to exist?
or
2)... you feel sad for yourself...sad thinking of what are you going to do and how difficult life would be once that person goes out of your life?

What is the reason we all cry when that love of our life dies? Is it selfishness reflected in our sense of loss? or is it the projection of the dying person's pain in your own self due to the closeness of the relationship? or is it the shattering of one's deeply desired dreams and aspirations that were intricately woven around the other person?

What is the real reason behind grief in the face of death of the love of your life?

Friday, April 22, 2011

A gullible stomach

Sometimes I feel our stomach is so gullible :-P It might be burning with hunger and we would feel we need to eat a substantial meal in order to douse it's hungry fires. But then even a few bits of chips ( worst possible 'meal' ) is enough for you to feel all full again ! What an idiot the stomach is !

Monday, April 18, 2011

A flutter in the heart :-)

I think Shakira, Beyonce and Katherine Heigl are the world's most beautiful women ! I just can't take my eyes off them whenever I see them on screen. That doesnt mean I check out their videos on youtube etc... naaahhh, am not obsessed but I am totally gaga over these women ! I very rarely wish this but here i am - I wish I could date Shakira ! I think she is the most beautiful creature I have ever seen in my life :-)

There you go.... I have lifted a huge weight off my shoulders with this confession. Of course this does not mean that I find my ex-gfs any less beautiful,,,,, they are probably the most beautiful and loving women I have ever met :-) cheers !

Sunday, February 13, 2011

The Valentine Day Metaphor

A high left elbow, a loose bottom hand grip, the head straight and still - that's another way in which to look at love as per me :-)
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY FOLKS ! May love fill your each day with its amazing magic :-)
also
happy cricketing bonanza that awaits us in the world cup.
Have tried to use cricketing lingo to describe love in our time.

God bless and have a beautiful v day for all who have a valentine.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Shoots spring through ! :-)

saw this line in a forward and just cant seem to get it out of my head :

If you judge people, you have no time to love them !

I have been trying to follow this philosophy for some time now but failing. But I am trying hard to follow this in my personal life atleast. Love for me is defined by Hafiz's poem which I have spoken about earlier -

Even after all this time, the sun never says to the earth - "you owe me!"
Look what happens with a love like that....
IT LIGHTS UP THE WHOLE SKY

Also never to break 4 things in my life - Trust, Relation, Promise and Heart. Because when they break, they don't make noise but pains a lot ! I don't know if I am even half way close to this goal ! But yeah keeping on thinking about these will surely help in following the same.

he he ! turned out to be quite a strange post ! Blaaa !